{"id":3360,"date":"2015-03-31T22:41:45","date_gmt":"2015-03-31T21:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/larelle.wordpress.com\/2015\/03\/31\/7-talk-about-your-biggest-insecurity\/"},"modified":"2015-03-31T22:41:45","modified_gmt":"2015-03-31T21:41:45","slug":"7-talk-about-your-biggest-insecurity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/?p=3360","title":{"rendered":"7. Talk About Your Biggest Insecurity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not being financially independent. And I don&#8217;t mean being rich. And I don&#8217;t mean having my own money even. But it must be such a comforting feeling &#8211; if you have the wealth, to know that no matter what life will throw at you in future, you&#8217;ll have the funds to cope. I&#8217;ve NEVER had that feeling. Very few people have. I&#8217;ve never felt secure in employment. Anyone who does is dillusional. No job can give you THAT amount of security&#8230;unless you provide an essential service&#8230;but you are likely to be paid a pittance. Because we live in a world where someone&#8217;s ability to kick or throw a ball is deemed MUCH more important and therefore financially rewarding than someone&#8217;s ability to care for other people and\/or save lives&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>If I had to choose something else a bit less obvious &#8211; that I&#8217;m not intelligent enough. I&#8217;ve always wanted to be intelligent and I try to learn but I just retain facts (and not many facts at that). I&#8217;m not really bookish. I love novels. I don&#8217;t do so well reading for study. I wish I was far more academic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not being financially independent. And I don&#8217;t mean being rich. And I don&#8217;t mean having my own money even. But it must be such a comforting feeling &#8211; if you have the wealth, to know that no matter what life will throw at you in future, you&#8217;ll have the funds to cope. I&#8217;ve NEVER had &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/?p=3360\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;7. Talk About Your Biggest Insecurity&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3360","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3360"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3360\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}