{"id":3363,"date":"2015-04-06T21:45:03","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T20:45:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/larelle.wordpress.com\/2015\/04\/06\/10-talk-about-the-biggest-fight-youve-ever-had\/"},"modified":"2015-04-06T21:45:03","modified_gmt":"2015-04-06T20:45:03","slug":"10-talk-about-the-biggest-fight-youve-ever-had","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/?p=3363","title":{"rendered":"10. Talk About The Biggest Fight You&#8217;ve Ever Had"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hmm. I don&#8217;t know what quantifies as &#8220;the biggest&#8221;. Most violent? Longest-lasting (in terms of no longer on speaking terms)?!<\/p>\n<p>If it&#8217;s most violent&#8230;it was probably with my ex-boyfriend and his then girlfriend. He was coming round to see me on occasion (and yes, at one point we did have sex &#8211; I&#8217;m not proud of myself. I was no longer in love with him. I was using him as such as he was using me &#8211; and mine was an even worse betrayal, because I was hoping to get pregnant. Not to get him back, mind! That was never my intention. It was just a VERY brief period of time in which I thought I wanted a child. If I had fallen pregnant, I had no intention of telling him. I wanted to raise the child alone). To cut a long story short, his girlfriend found out that he was coming round to mine to see me. She wasn&#8217;t best pleased. Rightfully so. But, he had been seeing her before he broke up with me&#8230;so I was kind of claiming it as karma.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know!! I really am not proud of my actions! It gets worse. She confronted me at my door. I wasn&#8217;t really in the mood to justify myself and I also carried the hurt from what they had both done to me. I didn&#8217;t want to talk. I wanted her gone and when she refused to leave, I got physical. Quite badly physical. I&#8217;m not going to go into detail, but what I did to her I would never, ever do to anyone EVER again. She could have had me arrested for assault. I would have!<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t stop there, either. I grabbed my ex by the back of the neck and, quite literally, threw him out my front door. Adrenalin pumping through my body from the altercation with his girlfriend, I was able to actually pick him up and throw him out the door!<\/p>\n<p>The next day, I spoke to them both, apologised profusely and kind of made my peace with them. I never really saw them after that. I have no idea if they are still together now. They were together for a while, as far as I know and had children together.<\/p>\n<p>But yes. That was a pretty big and violent fight.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hmm. I don&#8217;t know what quantifies as &#8220;the biggest&#8221;. Most violent? Longest-lasting (in terms of no longer on speaking terms)?! If it&#8217;s most violent&#8230;it was probably with my ex-boyfriend and his then girlfriend. He was coming round to see me on occasion (and yes, at one point we did have sex &#8211; I&#8217;m not proud &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/?p=3363\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;10. Talk About The Biggest Fight You&#8217;ve Ever Had&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3363\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/larelleread.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}